Cunnilingus Guide: How To Satisfy A Woman So She Doesn't Forget It

Oral sex is like dynamite for men. After all, this is perhaps the most relaxing and pleasant act in bed that a partner can do. However, it's a bit different for women - they need a bit more time to feel comfortable and relax, so it's hard to expect that 10 minutes of cunnilingus will shake her world and give her a unique orgasm.

Every woman likes different things, so you have to listen to your partner's words and watch her body, but with our tips, you can become a real cunnilingus master. Read on to find out how to give her the best oral of her life.

The best kuniling - how to do it?

Kuniling can be an ideal introduction, but oral can also make a great main course or dessert for her, so don't limit yourself. You should also know that every woman's anatomy is completely unique - no two vaginas are the same, so don't forget about communication. Observe the reaction of your partner's body, and even better - ask her what she likes. And don't forget - no one becomes a master just in a moment, like everywhere, practice is needed here, and with it comes experience.

The smell

You can wash as much as you want, but each of us has a smell that you can't get rid of. This is completely natural, so remember that a woman's vagina also has a specific natural smell. However, before performing kuning, one can purify oneself:

Ask your partner to take a shower or bath (even better if you do it with her);

Odorless wipes can be used;

The use of deodorants and perfumes in the genital area should be avoided, as they can disturb the natural pH balance.

Taste

Also, the genitals and secretions of each of us have a certain taste. If a person has good hygiene habits and is healthy, their taste will be normal, but if your partner is worried about her taste, suggest her to use the following: pineapple, papaya, nutmeg, cinnamon, celery. Garlic, onions, asparagus and cabbage should be avoided.

Is kuniling safe?

There is no risk of pregnancy while performing cunnilingus, but there is a risk of transmitting sexually transmitted diseases. After all, any genital contact can transmit STDs. To protect yourself, you can use special napkins that create a barrier between the vagina and the mouth.

How to perform Kuniling?

Preparation

For best results, you need to make sure your partner is completely relaxed and comfortable. Start with a gentle full body massage, touches and kisses. This will help you relax and "get" her on the road. Compliment her, praise her - make her feel sexy as hell and show your enthusiasm.

It is also very important to ensure that not only she is comfortable, but also you. Position yourself to ensure long-term comfort and avoid neck, wrist pain or numbness.

Communication is very important during this process, so ask her how she feels and what she likes, and be ready to accept her partner's comments.

Build tension

Often men rush to the point, but she will be much more pleased if you take your time and take things slowly. Build tension, just like in music: start with a soft, exciting introduction, gradually building up to the main action, and don't forget a suitable climax. By starting slowly and increasing the level of intensity, you will build sexual tension that will eventually lead to an incredible orgasm.

How to take care of the clitoris?

The clitoris gives almost every woman the greatest pleasure. It has over 8,000 nerve endings, twice as many as the head of the penis.

Women can experience such long and intense orgasms that men can only dream of. However, ignoring the clitoris will definitely not give her that pleasure. This female erogenous zone is much larger than what is visible to the naked eye: a tiny mound above the vulva with just the tip of the clitoris. The clitoris is much larger and covers both sides of the vagina. By rhythmically massaging these areas before or using the tongue, you will stimulate blood circulation in your partner's genitals and give her extremely pleasant sensations.

However, the tip of the clitoris is its most sensitive part. This area is slightly hidden by a patch of skin, so when you're ready to really pleasure her, pull back the skin surrounding the clitoris. There are two ways to do this:

 

  1. Wrap either hand around her thigh and place your thumb and forefinger on either side of her clitoris. With your fingertips, pull the skin surrounding the clitoris and expose it.

 

  1. Without hugging her thigh, place your thumb and forefinger as we advised above and expose her most sensitive erogenous zone.

 

Cunnilingus techniques

Technique is especially important for performing cunnilingus. Try this:

 

  1. Use a firm, flat tongue to gently stroke her panties until the material is wet.
  2. When your partner is wet, lightly lick the area above the clitoris. Don't forget the inner thighs.
  3. Firm and flat
  4. Bend your tongue and lick the skin surrounding the clitoris in small circles.
  5. Gently expose the clitoris with your fingers, bend the tongue and lick the clitoris. Start with gentle pressure and not too much pressure, then gradually increase the intensity.
  6. Once you reach a level of intensity that your partner likes, don't stop.

 

Keeping the lips

Holding both parts of the outer labia with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia, one side at a time.

 

Tongue penetration

Most of the nerve endings in a woman's vagina are at the entrance and about a couple of centimeters inside. Target these areas with your tongue by inserting it into your vagina. The techniques are quite limited due to the length of the tongue, but try moving the tongue in and out, as well as moving it in circles inside her entrance.

 

Quick movements

Spread the outer lips of the vagina with your fingers. Gently move your tongue around her clitoris. Move freely, but keep coming back to the clitoris as it is the most sensitive area. Most women go crazy for it, but some find it too intense. If you're not sure how she likes it, be sure to start off lightly with clitoral stimulation. After trying it, note if she moans in ecstasy or pain.

 

The techniques described below should not be used until your partner is sufficiently heated (i.e. moistened). These are much more intense methods and may be too strong for some women, even when they are close to orgasm.

 

Clitoral sucking I

Expose her clit by parting your lips and cupping it gently. With the clitoris exposed, give it a quick, light suction; gently pulling it into your mouth and releasing it. It's like licking cake batter off your finger. It's an incredible feeling and a great thing to do if you want to please her - but don't overdo it! When starting out, we recommend not using teeth or strong suction.

 

Clitoral sucking II

Take the exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, while moving your tongue over or around it in sudden movements. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and using the fingers at the same time usually speeds up an intense orgasm.

 

Tongue tube

Roll your tongue into a tube (if you can't do it, forget about it, it's a genetic ability that can't be learned). This technique works best in the inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into the tube at her clit. Move it back and forth; in fact, your tongue does something similar to what a woman's vagina does around a man's penis. It can bring any woman close to the edge of an extremely explosive orgasm.

 

Alphabet

Try using your tongue as if you were writing the alphabet on your genitals. This works surprisingly well because the tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and sequence to get the best score!

 

Poses

With a little imagination, you can turn almost any normal sex position into a cunnilingus position, but if you're a neck puller, we recommend these positions:

 

On back. Have your partner lie on her back with a pillow under her pelvis. Spread her legs apart and kneel in front of her;

Full control. Lie on your back and have your partner rub your face. In this way, she will be able to control the movements and the intensity of the pressure, and monitor you;

Almost 69. She rides your face, only this time her face is turned away from yours so she can give you oral pleasure too.

Why do men refuse to do cuning?

Unfortunately, not all men want to make a woman cum. There are various reasons for this, starting from lack of experience and fear of not being able to do it well, ending with the principle of "what's best for me". And why do men usually not give oral to their women?

I think it's unpleasant

Some men think that licking a woman's vagina is simply not pleasant. Therefore, just as some women do not want to orally please their partner, they do not want to perform cunnilingus.

The partner does not ask for it

There are many reasons why women do not express their desires: some are ashamed to admit what turns them on, others do not want to pressure their partner, and others simply do not know what they like.

Men are insecure about their skills

Some men may be intimidated by the complexity of cunnilingus. After all, we have already mentioned that every woman's vagina is different, and women's anatomy is much more complicated than men's.

In addition, even if a man performs kuniling without restraint, he may perform it incorrectly. After all, women play orgasms and pleasure so often, so men often do not have the opportunity to learn.

Some men are just plain selfish

Sometimes there is nothing left in the head of an excited man except for one thought - his orgasm.

 

5 most common mistakes during rabbiting

The belief that every woman's body is the same

It's easy to think that if you satisfy one woman, you'll satisfy another. However, every vagina is different, so don't assume that what was right for your ex-partner.

Kind regards,

TasteOfLove

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