BDSM FOR BEGINNERS - BONDAGE GAME

Bondage play is a great choice for those who want to start practising BDSM. Why? Because many people need to have things at home that can be used as ties (scarves, shawls, scraps of material) without having to worry about guests or other people in the house finding these things. It's better to explain why your suitcase is full of silk than chains, ropes or handcuffs. However, no matter how simple and uncomplicated the pursuits are, there are certain things you need to know before engaging in this sexual activity.

 

Know your partner well

 

It is very important to feel comfortable and safe with your partner(s) with whom you will practice this session. Talk about limits and what your limits are - this is necessary so that neither of you feels bad or feels excruciating pain during this kind of sex play. All this should bring only pleasure and sexual excitement, and not inconvenience or something that would amount to a waste of time. It would also be worth agreeing on a certain sign in the form of gestures or words that would mean a strict stop. That is if something turns out to be not as expected for someone - unpleasant and not fun, the partner could immediately learn that all these games need to be ended.

 

Choose your material carefully

 

There are many factors to consider when choosing a material for your bandages. For example, silk will be a great choice in the warm season, while wool or cotton will be ideal in the cold season. Of course, the most important thing to pay attention to is whether the material is pleasant to your body. If so, don't hesitate and choose it! But don't forget about the thickness of the materials either - the thicker the material, the stronger it will hold.

 

If you are going to put something in the bound mouth, be careful

 

choosing this requires extreme care. A partner's mouth covered with a piece of material can cause him or her discomfort due to throat irritation or even vomiting. To prevent this from happening, watch the signals or signs your partner sends. Meanwhile, if you're the one tied up, don't be afraid to show your partner when something is going in a direction you don't like. After all, all these activities must be based on one single principle - to give pleasure to both parties!

 

Be careful with your partner's neck area

 

Neck is a very sensitive part of the body, so many problems can arise from tying the neck of your partner or partner with maximum force. So, when tying your neck, make sure that the tie is loose enough and won't hurt your other half. It would be even better if you replace the neckband with passionate kisses or even gentle bites on this area.

 

Don't dive headfirst into BDSM

 

While some edgier adventurers may prefer ropes or handcuffs, shawls and other forms of restraints are not a bad option, especially for those just starting out in BDSM. Done right, this method will be pain-free and a great start to BDSM play. Once you've tried this and found that you enjoy the activity, you can no doubt move on to more severe types of BDSM.

Kind regards,

TasteOfLove

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